Comments on: Are Men Intimidated By Independent & Successful Women? http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html Weekly random rambles, musings & writings of Mike Lee Mon, 01 Mar 2010 20:23:01 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: shinobi http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-4#comment-131979 shinobi Mon, 01 Mar 2010 20:23:01 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-131979 Fucking man-hater. Fucking man-hater.

]]> By: Kevin Elliott http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-4#comment-131978 Kevin Elliott Mon, 01 Mar 2010 20:06:00 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-131978 Wow Deborah, that was so elegantly written! Wow Deborah, that was so elegantly written!

]]> By: Deborah http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-4#comment-131974 Deborah Mon, 01 Mar 2010 19:14:31 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-131974 If a beautiful woman is chatted up by a man, and feels disturbed and bothered about unwanted attention, she should tell him to fuck off! Why bother about hurting his feelings? If the woman were half as ugly as he is, believe me he would not attempt to chat her up. Men are quite frankly criminals, as all they see is beauty as the first impression in a woman,whereas we women know that this is far from our greatest and most wonderful asset. Intelligence is our most wonderful God given gift. Men don't bother to reckon with how we women feel about being chatted up at random. Their egos are all they care about. When we're sitting alone on a bus or train, and just want some personal quiet time, along comes this rude PRICK who WANTS TO PULL. When we're reading valuable mind stimulating literature or want to listen to some relaxing music, pow here comes MR PRICK wanting to PUll yet again, with scant regard about the fact that, yeah, yeah ,YEAH... Mr. errect DICK is disturbing us at the expense of his own self gratification. How dare he!!!! I tell him to FUCK OFF> End of...... Watch his balls take a limp drop, girls. You're worth more than just an errect dick! If a beautiful woman is chatted up by a man, and feels disturbed and bothered about unwanted attention, she should tell him to fuck off! Why bother about hurting his feelings? If the woman were half as ugly as he is, believe me he would not attempt to chat her up.

Men are quite frankly criminals, as all they see is beauty as the first impression in a woman,whereas we women know that this is far from our greatest and most wonderful asset.
Intelligence is our most wonderful God given gift. Men don’t bother to reckon with how we women feel about being chatted up at random. Their egos are all they care about.
When we’re sitting alone on a bus or train, and just want some personal quiet time, along comes this rude PRICK who WANTS TO PULL.

When we’re reading valuable mind stimulating literature or want to listen to some relaxing music, pow here comes MR PRICK wanting to PUll yet again, with scant regard about the fact that, yeah, yeah ,YEAH… Mr. errect DICK is disturbing us at the expense of his own self gratification.
How dare he!!!! I tell him to FUCK OFF> End of……

Watch his balls take a limp drop, girls. You’re worth more than just an errect dick!

]]> By: Liza http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-4#comment-131511 Liza Sun, 14 Feb 2010 10:01:15 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-131511 I want to say that I am a small business owner and the hardiest thing in my life to have right now is a good relationship with a man that wont tell how to good to be true I am and how proud they are of me. I have never been the one to walk around stating what I have and who I am. In fact most times I don't like to tell them. But evenly you have to. I feel for the most part I have my act together and I want someone who knows what he wants out of life and from a good relationship. I get a lot of your beautiful and successful , why do you want me or you must be dating a lot of guys, or you are just to good for me ,or I have nothing to offer you. When really all I am trying to do is get to know them. I would just like someone to tell me what they see in me, then what they don’t see in themselves when they look at me. When and if I tell a man that I am looking for a strong man, what I am trying to express to them is that I am looking for a good family man, someone who has good relations with their family. Someone who is not afraid to love himself and or other , someone I can compliment instead of bringing him down and so on. Someone who knows what it takes to have a good a lasting relationship ( by knowing it isn’t always going to be a sunny day in the park) So why is that too hard I want to say that I am a small business owner and the hardiest thing in my life to have right now is a good relationship with a man that wont tell how to good to be true I am and how proud they are of me. I have never been the one to walk around stating what I have and who I am. In fact most times I don’t like to tell them. But evenly you have to. I feel for the most part I have my act together and I want someone who knows what he wants out of life and from a good relationship. I get a lot of your beautiful and successful , why do you want me or you must be dating a lot of guys, or you are just to good for me ,or I have nothing to offer you. When really all I am trying to do is get to know them. I would just like someone to tell me what they see in me, then what they don’t see in themselves when they look at me. When and if I tell a man that I am looking for a strong man, what I am trying to express to them is that I am looking for a good family man, someone who has good relations with their family. Someone who is not afraid to love himself and or other , someone I can compliment instead of bringing him down and so on. Someone who knows what it takes to have a good a lasting relationship ( by knowing it isn’t always going to be a sunny day in the park) So why is that too hard

]]> By: Donnell http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-3#comment-131255 Donnell Fri, 05 Feb 2010 08:33:30 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-131255 I think it fine for women to be successful. As anyone who can compete. But I don't want a woman who is constantly belittling me because I don't have what she has. I think a lot of women want too much. They want a man to have all these qualities but what is she bringing to the table? The rate divorce is sickening, is because successful woman feel like they don't need a man? That they rape him in court. I think if women don't need men don't take or try and take the money. Have sense of honor and duty. Stop trying to make the world like you. The workplace should be performance based. It should be a gossip center. I don't know how men are going survive or adjust. Weakness is not tolerated in me. For some women their is a hatred of men that poisons every interaction. Almost every woman I have met is a spoiled brat that believes they should be taken care. So when society set up so men can't success, They expect someone out there GOVERMENT to do it for them. That's why society is going down standards are being lowered to help people do jobs they really can't competently do. I say to all women if you have a job do it well you are expected to do that, don't expect any favors because you are a woman. Stop behaving like a brat because you don't get your way grow up life has disappointments. Setbacks and yes failures you are not immune. I think it fine for women to be successful. As anyone who can compete. But I don’t want a woman who is constantly belittling me because I don’t have what she has. I think a lot of women want too much. They want a man to have all these qualities but what is she bringing to the table? The rate divorce is sickening, is because successful woman feel like they don’t need a man? That they rape him in court. I think if women don’t need men don’t take or try and take the money. Have sense of honor and duty. Stop trying to make the world like you. The workplace should be performance based. It should be a gossip center. I don’t know how men are going survive or adjust. Weakness is not tolerated in me. For some women their is a hatred of men that poisons every interaction. Almost every woman I have met is a spoiled brat that believes they should be taken care. So when society set up so men can’t success, They expect someone out there GOVERMENT to do it for them. That’s why society is going down standards are being lowered to help people do jobs they really can’t competently do. I say to all women if you have a job do it well you are expected to do that, don’t expect any favors because you are a woman. Stop behaving like a brat because you don’t get your way grow up life has disappointments. Setbacks and yes failures you are not immune.

]]> By: Sandy http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-3#comment-129824 Sandy Wed, 09 Dec 2009 23:44:23 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-129824 lol thanks, girl :) Let's spread the good word! lol thanks, girl Let’s spread the good word!

]]> By: Marie http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-2#comment-129801 Marie Wed, 09 Dec 2009 06:28:13 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-129801 As a doctor, I've had no problem getting dates. However, my older (and cuter!) sister is a physicist and as soon as she tells men what she does for a living they tend to lose interest. This is despite the fact that she's petite, adorable, cooks, and follows sports. She totally needs to say she's a teacher and see how that works. As a doctor, I’ve had no problem getting dates. However, my older (and cuter!) sister is a physicist and as soon as she tells men what she does for a living they tend to lose interest. This is despite the fact that she’s petite, adorable, cooks, and follows sports. She totally needs to say she’s a teacher and see how that works.

]]> By: SKinom http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-3#comment-124423 SKinom Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:42:50 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-124423 Ok, I am a successful, heterosexual woman, but I love Sandy. LOL. Tell em' girl! I agree with you wholeheartedly. Ok, I am a successful, heterosexual woman, but I love Sandy. LOL. Tell em’ girl! I agree with you wholeheartedly.

]]> By: Sandy http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-3#comment-121223 Sandy Thu, 21 May 2009 18:43:36 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-121223 I'm a gal and I think there are a few types of successful women. There are those who truly pursue education because they love knowledge or they need another degree for the field that they are in. These girls tend to be more down to earth about it, don't show off their intelligence/accomplishments. And then there are those girls who pursue more education and accomplishments to make up for some other deficiencies and low self-esteem. These are the ones that LOVE to show off about it. Even I can't stand girls like that, so I have no clue how a guy could handle that. I think the important thing for women who are successful to realize is that there is a difference between being successful and showing it off. Whether you like it or not, guys are wired to show off with their accomplishments to impress girls, and most of the time it works to their advantage. On the contrary, if a woman behaves in this manner, she is reducing her feminine appeal by acting like the pursuing male would. It's fine to discuss your accomplishments as a woman, but save it for later and, when you do, don't be so smug about it. And, also, don't compete with your men in this department and don't shortchange a guy who is also successful. He will like compliments as much as you do. So in conclusion, it's not the substance of the successful woman, but it's her relationship style that makes all of the difference. I will also admit that there are those men who just don't have what it takes to measure up to and satisfy a successful woman. If you follow the above steps and he is still intimidated, then he's not worth your time anyway! I’m a gal and I think there are a few types of successful women. There are those who truly pursue education because they love knowledge or they need another degree for the field that they are in. These girls tend to be more down to earth about it, don’t show off their intelligence/accomplishments. And then there are those girls who pursue more education and accomplishments to make up for some other deficiencies and low self-esteem. These are the ones that LOVE to show off about it. Even I can’t stand girls like that, so I have no clue how a guy could handle that. I think the important thing for women who are successful to realize is that there is a difference between being successful and showing it off. Whether you like it or not, guys are wired to show off with their accomplishments to impress girls, and most of the time it works to their advantage. On the contrary, if a woman behaves in this manner, she is reducing her feminine appeal by acting like the pursuing male would. It’s fine to discuss your accomplishments as a woman, but save it for later and, when you do, don’t be so smug about it. And, also, don’t compete with your men in this department and don’t shortchange a guy who is also successful. He will like compliments as much as you do. So in conclusion, it’s not the substance of the successful woman, but it’s her relationship style that makes all of the difference. I will also admit that there are those men who just don’t have what it takes to measure up to and satisfy a successful woman. If you follow the above steps and he is still intimidated, then he’s not worth your time anyway!

]]> By: pwr2daplp http://www.mikelee.org/are-men-intimidated-by-independent-successful-women.html/comment-page-3#comment-102806 pwr2daplp Fri, 20 Feb 2009 03:58:30 +0000 http://www.mikelee.org/?p=537#comment-102806 I met a girl once that was in a class with me. I was pursuing my B.A., while she must of had a Masters of some kind. Anyway, she would go on about what she had accomplished and everywhere she'd been. It was just so monotonous. She seemed like a very nice and likeable person, but at times she would revert to those "accomplishments" again. In my opinion, this is a "hang-up" in successful women. I mean... seriously. This type of behaviour is a turn-off in anyone, but in a women even more so. I met a girl once that was in a class with me. I was pursuing my B.A., while she must of had a Masters of some kind. Anyway, she would go on about what she had accomplished and everywhere she’d been. It was just so monotonous. She seemed like a very nice and likeable person, but at times she would revert to those “accomplishments” again. In my opinion, this is a “hang-up” in successful women. I mean… seriously. This type of behaviour is a turn-off in anyone, but in a women even more so.

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